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Me

Words that apply to me:

  • Cory, Cor, Co, epochryphal, ed-ochryphal, ed
  • co/co/cos/cos/coself; to a lesser extent (it’s not offensive, just not affirming) they/them/their/theirs/themself
  • M. (title)
  • neutrois, neutral, neut (that last only if we’re friendly)
  • non-binary, trans*, trans, transgender, transexual (one ‘s’) [sort of on that one]
  • soft, neutral (this is w.r.t. presentation)
  • neutrois, neutral (this is w.r.t. body/sex identity)
  • questioning, wtf, queer [sometimes, but problems], pan [sort of, and without a stem] (and yes i here collapse sexual+romantic orientation since that is what makes sense for me personally); allosexual [i guess now?]
  • kinky, masochist
  • white, french-canadian [loosely]
  • middle-class
  • unilaterally hearing-impaired, hearing aid user; sighted, mostly temporarily able-bodied, allistic
  • English native speaker and native-born U.S. citizen
  • singlet
  • single birth
  • post-college (studied mathematics & linguistics)
  • vegetarian
  • loosely spiritual, less unitarian universalist these days
  • probably: depression, social anxiety, OCD; family history of bipolar (II and I)
  • human [though not attached, ‘tis a site of privilege]

Words that do not apply to me:

  • C, Coco
  • any other set of pronouns at all
  • Mr., Mrs., Ms., Miss, Mx., Mre., ma’am, sirma’am (‘sir’ is variable; some neutral alternative would be ideal)
  • agender, genderless
  • genderqueer, man, woman, boy, girl, third gender, other, any other gender words
  • androgynous, butch, femme, masculine, feminine
  • male- or female-bodied; intersex
  • grey-a, demi, asexual, hetero- or homo- or bi-; ‘grey’ less and less, ace [sometimes broadly, and history, but]
  • sub, dom, switch, any of those
  • caucasian [i find it problematic]
  • deaf, hard of hearing, Deaf
  • multiple, median
  • vegan, pescatarian, omnivorous, carnivorous
  • agnostic, atheist, religious, any specific denomination [although raised Protestant Baptist]
  • otherkin, ‘kin, nonhuman

Words that are acceptable if masculine-default-reinforcing:

  • dude, bro, one of the guys, sir

Anatomy:

  • i don’t have nipples! it’s awesome! :D

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